If you’re dating a guy who’s anything like so many of the guys who post in r/AmITheAsshole, you should not only leave him but literally warn everyone about him.

No takesies-backsies, no “but I’ve cHaNgEd!”, no nothing. It’s over and literally everyone gets to know who you are.

And you can keep your “but you should try seeing his side” clown-ass out of this thread. I won’t entertain it. Not in the mood.